Divorce Innovation by Youngblood Law, PLLC
Youngblood Law, PLLC proudly focuses our practice on helping people through divorce so they can begin their new happily ever after! We reject the traditional toxic divorce that most people are familiar with. Instead, we use low-conflict alternatives to simplify each divorce down to its essential elements. This allows us to focus on protecting assets and preserving relationships. That’s Divorce Innovation.
Divorce in Texas addresses property division between the spouses and issues surrounding the children of the marriage. Texas courts try to do what is in the best interest of the child (BIC) as best they can. Property division resembles a dissolution of a business partnership. With child issues and property division, the Texas Family Code is the law the courts follow. Youngblood Law, PLLC brings the law to bear for our clients throughout the divorce process.
The typical divorce induces tons of stress, fear, and anxiety. Youngblood Law, PLLC believes there is a better way to get divorced. We know our clients may feel angry and hurt when they first reach out to us. We also know that ultimately, they want to start a new happily ever after. That’s why we focus on puting our clients in the best possible position when the divorce is over.
Our proven low-conflict strategies and tactics reduce stress and bring relief to our clients. Instead of bickering with the other spouse’s attorney, we create win/win situations to reduce conflict in the divorce. Rather than litigate every issue, we prefer to negotiate, mediate, or collaborate to settle issues. Low-conflict methods achieve results without the added stress of adversarial hearings. Of course, when we must litigate Youngblood Law, PLLC fearlessly advocates for our clients with fervor and skill.
A side benefit of our low-conflict methods is stress reduction for our clients and also for the children. Small children should be shielded from grown-up matters as much as possible. Teenagers need reassurance that they aren’t losing either parent. Adult children need to maintain their relationships with both parents too. Our low-conflict strategies support the emotional needs of the children as well as our clients. That’s Divorce Innovation!
When clients come to Youngblood Law, PLLC facing divorce, we provide guidance on more than the legal proceedings. Besides the emotional damage the divorce causes, real life concerns of divorce must be confronted. Our clients wonder how they will move forward with their lives without their spouse’s income to help. Certainly, mortgage payments, utility bills, car notes, and more still need to be paid during the divorce.
Anyone facing a divorce must find an experienced family law firm to develop a plan for moving forward during the divorce. Planning for living during the divorce is crucial for a successful divorce outcome. Likewise, even fundamental questions about where to live during a divorce must be carefully thought out.
Fortunately, at Youngblood Law, PLLC, we are students of the entire divorce process. We know our clients have a life to live outside the courtroom. Unlike general practice law firms that occasionally take on a divorce and hope for the best, family law is all we do. Divorce Innovation means we counsel our clients who are embarking on a whole new life. Youngblood Law, PLLC supports our clients before, during and after the divorce is done.
The Divorce Proceedings
The legal process of divorce is complex. First, the Texas Family Code hard to master. Second, there are many possible paths to take to get to the desired result. Still, a divorce starts like any other civil lawsuit, and Youngblood Law, PLLC handles the procedural aspects for our clients. Our clients can rest easy knowing we are handling the paperwork.
The day the divorce is filed starts the required 60-day waiting period. Generally, the divorce cannot be finished until the 60 days has expired. During this time, we work to resolve as many divorce issues as possible for our clients. Youngblood Law, PLLC frequently wraps up divorces completely during this period. Then we merely have the court enter the divorce as soon as the wait period is over. That’s Divorce Innovation!
While the average divorce in Texas takes 15 months, we usually finish our divorces in roughly half that time. We see no benefit to our clients from dragging on a divorce for no reason. Of course, sometimes slowing things down helps our clients, so we put on the brakes.
Whether the divorce takes the minimum 60 days, or takes several months, Temporary Orders are normally necessary. Temporary Orders define how the spouses will live and interact with each other during the divorce proceedings. Temporary orders address issues like who lives where, where the kids reside, who pays child support, and more. Consequently, we help our clients get temporary orders from the court early on in the case.
Once Temporary Orders are in place, they typically endure for the rest of the divorce proceedings. Temporary Orders often set the pace for the whole divorce. In fact, many final divorce decrees follow the temporary orders very closely. For example, a custody arrangement that works great for the kids for several months, will likely become the final order of the court. Therefore, Youngblood Law, PLLC takes temporary orders seriously. When it comes to Temporary Orders, we believe failing to prepare is preparing to fail.
After the Court enters Temporary Orders, discovery often follows. Discovery is the formal process of gathering information, records, and documents needed to properly divide the marital estate. Because discovery can be very labor intensive, it can be an expensive endeavor. At Youngblood Law, PLLC, we do not use a cookie cutter approach for discovery like many firms. Rather, we tailor the amount and focus of the discovery we do to the unique circumstances our clients need. That’s Divorce Innovation!
The courts usually order contested cases to mediation. At Youngblood Law, PLLC, we love mediating divorces with our clients. For the client, mediation represents a value because a successful mediation basically ends the case. Finishing the case with an agreement is much less costly than final trial. That’s why we do our best to settle divorces in mediation for our clients.
We believe there is a better way to divorce, and mediation is a large part of that for our firm. Besides wrapping up the divorce without the cost and stress of final trial, mediation represents other value to clients. Importantly, mediation allows the clients to make decisions for themselves and children. In this way clients control their own destinies! Nothing is left up to chance with a judge who doesn’t even know the spouses or kids. A successful mediation yields a Mediated Settlement Agreement. Once signed by the parties, the agreement is irrevocable. That’s why a mediated settlement agreement ends the divorce when experienced family lawyers use the process.
Caucus Style Mediation
Procedurally, Texas customarily uses a “caucus” style mediation. This means each spouse is in a separate room with his or her attorney. Then a neutral mediator goes back and forth to the rooms to try to work a deal. The caucus system usually prevents the spouses from seeing each other. Experienced lawyers like Youngblood Law, PLLC wrap up all the loose ends in a mediation. That’s Divorce Innovation!
If a case fails to settle at mediation, then final trial is the next major process. As the name implies, this is the trial that finishes the divorce. Sometimes, by the time final trial rolls around, the spouses have already agreed on some issues in the divorce. It is also possible to have a partial mediated settlement agreement that locks down some issues. If the parties couldn’t agree on everything at mediation, a final trial on the remaining issues is needed. In a final trial, any issues that remain to be settled will be argued for the court to decide.
Access & Possession of the Children and Child Support
There’s a better way to divorce. Preserving relationships between the parents and the children is crucial. But preserving the relationship between the parents is also important. We find that most of our clients desire a solid co-parenting relationship with their former spouse. Certainly the children deserve to have regular and frequent access to both parents. Likewise won’t the children want their parents to be with them on important occasions? Youngblood Law, PLLC’s low-conflict methods help give clients the opportunity to someday sit with their former spouse to watch their kids graduate. We hope both spouses will someday attend their children’s weddings without drama. That’s Divorce Innovation.
A common question we hear is “How much will this divorce cost me?” Unfortunately, we cannot answer that question. Neither can other lawyers, at least not with any certainty. Unlike other law firms that merely run a law practice, Youngblood Law, PLLC runs a business. We are in the business of selling legal services. Our dedication to running a business means we track and monitor key metrics. This benefits the client because we know what certain services cost, so we can price our services appropriately.
No lawyer can predict how complex a case may be, who the opposing attorney may be, what steps in the divorce process will be needed, or other variables. All those things affect the cost of a divorce, so we can’t guess the cost of any given divorce. We have our historical data though, and our average divorce costs a fraction of the state norm.
We believe that Divorce Done Differently demands that we be good stewards of client funds. As a result, we are careful with the legal work we do, and only do work that moves the client’s case forward. As a policy, we don’t do work for the client that puts the client in debt to the firm. To avoid cash crunches for our clients we carefully monitor their cases to help them keep their accounts funded. We offer payment options and set payment plans for our clients’ convenience.
Another Option: Collaborative Divorce
Many people do not even know there is an another option for Divorce in Texas. Collaborative divorce offers people the chance to finish a divorce without trial. Youngblood Law, PLLC proudly offers the collaborative model to our divorce clients.
Benefits of Collaborative Divorce include complete confidentiality. The entire divorce takes place away from the courthouse and prying ears. Even the divorce decree won’t reveal any confidential information about the parties. Collaborative Divorce builds safety for the parties into the system as well.
Neutral professionals provide guidance to the spouses beyond advice of lawyers. A mental health professional helps design a parenting plan for the spouses. Meanwhile a financial professional helps the spouses budget and prepare for life after the divorce.
We believe Collaborative Divorce is the epitome of Divorce Done Differently. Each of Youngblood Law, PLLC’s attorneys received training in this new, exciting divorce method. See our blogs about Collaborative Divorce for more of its features and benefits.
Youngblood Law, PLLC is a Fort Worth, Texas law firm dedicated to family law. We help working people through divorce so they can start their new happily ever after. We also proudly offer the collaborative divorce process for our clients. This essay is intended for educational use only and is not a replacement for competent legal counsel. If you are facing a family law matter, we recommend obtaining competent legal counsel like Youngblood Law, PLLC. For more information, contact us at 817-601-5345, find us on the web at www.youngblood-law.com.
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